Over the next few days in the lead up to Christmas, Ultimate U are giving you a tip a day on how to keep your mental health during this very busy period….
Tip 3 – Feast
Perhaps one of the most justified activities at Christmas time is how much food we tell ourselves that we can consume. Now we are not saints at Ultimate U and indeed we really do enjoy celebrating, it’s the consequences that do our self-esteem damage. See if you can identify with any of the following…
Common phrases heard before Christmas:
“It’s only once a year”
“If we can’t enjoy ourselves at this time of year when can we?”
“Well, a bit of padding for winter does no harm”
“I’ve only had two mince pies so…”
“I can go on a diet after Christmas”
“They’ve gone to so much trouble; I couldn’t possibly not have another one…”
“I deserve a treat”
And then the New Year arrives and we dust off our guilt again and you might hear the following…
Common phrases heard after Christmas:
“Oh, I’ve put on so much weight”
“I can’t believe it – my trousers feel so tight”
“I only had a few chocolates…”
“Why did I eat so much?”
“Diet starts tomorrow”
“I’ve overdone it again”
I can say that all the pre-Christmas statements have been said in the office this week already! Maybe you deserve a treat, you’ve worked hard all year, maybe you’ve had some major crises to deal with and perhaps Christmas is a little bit of brightness on the horizon – nothing wrong with that. So, maybe, it’s about spoiling ourselves a little but not too much!
As for the after Christmas statements…one thing is clear, the more you beat yourself up the less likely you are to feel in control and therefore take positive action. So go easy on the guilt trip, relax and get back to normal as soon as you can.